Why Why, just tell me why?

It's really hard to find out why certain people use their heads, despite being told not to. Recently that happened when I needed to borrow some money, while staying with one of my very close friends, who would really feel heartbroken, if he came to know, that I didn't approach him for the money-need. So, it went like this, that I had to ask someone else, as I knew, that this close friend of mine is having his own commitments.

The other guy, thought, it would be good to tell my close friend, that I asked for money.

Now, I am in a situation, where, I hate that guy, my close friend feels sad, I don't need the godamn money anymore!

Darn, I am just sick of it.